Sunday, 14 December 2008

A Christmas Prayer

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Now playing: Simon & Garfunkel - Bridge Over Troubled Water
via FoxyTunes
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Dear God, thank you for sending your Son, Jesus, so I could get to know you. Thank you for loving me. Thank you for being with me all my life even when I didn't know it. I realize I need a savior to set me free from sin, from myself, and from all the habits, hurts, and hang-ups that mess up my life. I ask you to forgive me for my sins. I want to repent and live the way you created me to live. Be the Lord of my life, and save me by your grace. Save me from my sins, and save me for your purpose. I want to learn to love you, trust you, and become what you made me to be. Thank you for creating me and choosing me to be part of your family. Right now, by faith, I accept the Christmas gift of you Son. Fill me with your peace and assurance so I can be a peacemaker, and helo me share this message of peace with others. In your name I pray. AMEN.

Taken from "The Purpose of Christmas" by Rick Warren, pp.121-122.

Monday, 8 December 2008

Selebriti Indonesia

Baru baru ini, dunia selebriti dan olahraga Indonesia mengalami 'syok' berat ketika pembalap nasional A.M dan adiknya M.S. bersama dengan artis M.Z. terlibat dalam kasus pemukulan terhadap A.S. Mau bilang syok juga sebenarnya gak sih, soalnya khan dunia selebriti Indonesia selalu berwarna warni dengan gosip gosip yang tidak jelas. Menurut berbagai sumber yang dilansir, para tersangka menculik, memukul secara bersamaan, menganiaya, dan membuat korban melakukan *maaf* oral-sex. sendiri. Alasannya cukup simple, karena sang korban tidak bisa menepati janji yaitu membayar hutang secara lunas.
Bagi saya, alasan apapun itu, sangatlah tidak masuk akal dan tidak bisa diterima oleh akal sehat ketika kita sebagai warna negara Indonesia yang mempunyai akal sehat dan budi luhur untuk melakukan tindak kekerasan kepada warga negara yang lain; apalagi para tersangka adalah orang orang yang cukup terkenal di negara Indonesia.
Beberapa poin yang mau saya tekankan di sini adalah:
Apakah ini cara kita untuk menyelesaikan masalah di negara Indonesia? Dengan cara kekerasan dan tidak berprikemanusiaan? Kalo iya, mau dibawa kemana masa depan negara ini? Sangat suram dan tidak jelas.
Apakah ini budaya bangsa Indonesia yang tidak bisa menghargai orang lain? Bangsa yang dikenal dengan moral dan budaya tapi ternyata suka dengan kekerasan.
Saya tidak bisa mengerti dengan cara pikir para tersangka yang dengan seenak jidat melakukan kekerasan seperti ini. Apakah mereka tidak pernah berpikir bahwa mereka akan (dan sudah) dilaporkan ke pihak yang berwajib setelah mereka melakukan hal tersebut? Mungkin pernah terlintas di pikiran mereka adalah mereka bisa lolos dari hukum dengan cara menyewa profesional pengacara dan berpura-pura sakit saat ada panggilan wawancara atau panggilan sidang. It's pathetic. (Maaf, poin yang satu ini tidak bermaksud untuk menjudge orang).
Himbauan saya untuk para selebriti di luar sana, janganlah sombong ketika kalian sudah berada di puncak karier anda karena di atas langit masih ada langit.
Terakhir dari saya, HAI BANGSA INDONESIA BERUBAHLAH! Masih belum terlambat untuk kata berubah.

Short note:
I have tried Soya Pearl and Almond Soya. Now I am trying Chendol Soya.

Tuesday, 2 December 2008

Words of Wisdom from Bill Gates

Here is some advice Bill Gates recently gave in a speech to American high school students. These rules, he says, contain real wisom - unlike what students receive in schools.

RULE 1 - Life is not fair - get used to it.

RULE 2 - The world won't care about your self-esteem. The world will expect you to accomplish something before you feel good about yourself.

RULE 3 - You will NOT make $40,000 a year right out of high school.

RULE 4 - If you think your teacher is tough, wait till you get a boss!

RULE 5 - Working at McDonald's is not beneath your dignity. Your grandparents had a different word for such jobs - they called them "opportunities".

RULE 6 - If you make mistakes, it's not your parents' fault, so don't cry about your mistakes. Learn from your mistakes.

RULE 7 - You probably think your parents are boring, right? They weren't always boring, you know. They became boring from paying your bills, cleaning your clothes and listening to you talk about how cool you are. So why don't you try cleaning the closet in your own bedroom?

RULE 9 - Life is not divided into school semesters or terms. You don't get many weeks' vacation in a year, and very few employers are interested in really helping you. You need to learn to help yourself.

RULE 10 - Television is NOT real life. In real life people actually have to leave the coffee shop and go to jobs.

RULE 11 - Be nice to nerds. You'll probably end up working for one.



Short note:
Holiday comes from two words, holy and day; so enjoy every time you have a holiday!

Monday, 1 December 2008

Human Right activist

Finally, a weight lifted
Published by the Star news, on Sunday November 30, 2008 by Shaila Koshy
http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2008/11/30/focus/2681622&sec=focus

Dr Irene Fernandez made headlines again after the High Court acquitted her of publishing false news on the treatment of migrant workers at detention camps after a trial that stretched over 13 years. Sunday Star catches up with the Tenaganita director on how those challenging years took a toll on her and her family.

Free at last, free at last. Thank God Almighty, free at last!” Those were the first words that came to Dr Irene Fernandez, 62, when the High Court acquitted her on Monday of publishing false news.

Four days after High Court Justice Mohd Apandi Ali set aside the conviction and 12 months’ jail sentence imposed by the magistrate’s court, she was still on a high.

Understandably so, after 13 years of having the case hanging over her head and taking a toll on her family; she is now able to get on with life without interruptions – she reportedly went to court 310 times in the trial that stretched seven and a half years before she was finally convicted on Oct 15, 2003.

“I had no idea that just by issuing a press statement to highlight the abuses Tenaganita had uncovered that I would be subjecting myself to all that. All we wanted was for the Government to investigate the abuses,” said Fernandez.

The Tenaganita Sdn Bhd director was guilty under Section 8A(1) of the Printing Presses and Publications Act 1984 for publishing a memorandum titled “Abuse, Torture, and Dehumanised Treatment of Migrant Workers at Detention Camps” which contained 16 statements that were found to be false.

The memorandum was based on information which was collected through research conducted on migrant workers and HIV/AIDS.

“Those 13 years were very challenging times. I knew the system was not for me even though I had spoken the truth; the Govern­ment was in denial (about the abuses) and judicial independence was lacking,” says Fernandez, who has the dubious honour of having “participated” in Malaysia’s longest ever trial after her arrest on March 18, 1996, at her house.

“There were several repercussions for Tenaganita. Immediately after I was arrested, the office was raided by the Registrar of Companies – all because I had not submitted two receipts on EPF that had been paid,” she says.

(The ROC later dropped the charges against her and another director.)

“Tenaganita was portrayed as an anti-government organisation. And because we were registered as a company, we subsequently failed to get any grants. The Health Ministry also cut off our funds for our shelter for people with HIV.”

It has been reported that it took the prosecution three years to make its case. In that time, many of the original interviewees had left Malaysia.

“One of the challenges in my defence was that I had to travel to Indonesia, the Philip­pines and Bangladesh to find witnesses.

“The time in Bangladesh was the most stressful because I was asking the workers to relive their pain. While some of the women who had been raped when they were here had been thrown out by their husbands, some men who had experienced torture now suffered erectile dysfunction.”

Instead of getting all of them to come back and testify on her behalf, she put her energies into setting up income-generating projects for them.

The financial burden of a long case often causes an appellant to give up but Fernandez, a a diehard activist who started at the age of 23, was fortunate.

“I had to retain my solicitor for documentation and research and travel with me to find witnesses. All that came up to RM1.5mil.

“I was fortunate in that because we had grown as an organisation, we had international support for fund raising. I used to get cards of support from children overseas. That really energises you!

“And I had a great defence team who did not charge professional fees,” she says, touched by their sacrifice of “billable” time.

Asked how she had found the strength to keep fighting, Fernandez, who started her activism in the Young Women’s Christian Association after she gave up her teaching job, says: “It was my faith. I held on to what Jesus Christ struggled for. His life challenged me to struggle for justice and for rights. He gave me strength to live my faith.”

Pending her appeal against conviction and sentence, the court impounded her passport. This put a strain on her professional and personal life.

“In 2003, I applied for my passport to attend a meeting in Beijing but it was refused.

“On appeal, the High Court said I could have it but I would have to report to every Malaysian High Commission whenever I went overseas and I could not tarnish the image of Malaysia while I was there.

“A hilarious thing happened at one place when I called to report in. They thought I was someone important that they had forgotten to pick up at the airport!” she laughs.

“But not having my passport made it difficult for me to travel with my family and when I wanted to get ayurvedic treatment after I suffered a slipped disc,” she says quietly, sobering up at that memory.

The most difficult aspect of being on trial and having a conviction and 12 months’ jail hanging over her head was the impact on her family.

When Fernandez was arrested, Tania was 13, Camverra was 12 and Katrina was only 10.

“I couldn’t have coped if my sisters hadn’t helped with my daughters and son. They did so much.

“Today, my children tell me that they are better off than others because of what happened to me; they know what justice is and what rights are.”

As for her husband Joseph Paul, Fernandez said he was very angry and upset at first and that affected his work.

“He had a government job and when he found he was going nowhere, he left and started his own consultancy. This has been a journey for the whole family.”

While Fernandez was a “convict” at home, her work with Tenaganita and the prosecution got her international acclaim.

She received, among others, the Human Rights Monitor Award by Human Rights Watch in 1996; the Amnesty International Human Rights Defenders Recognition on the 50th anniversary of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights in 1998; an Honorary Doctorate in Social Medicine from Vrije University in Amsterdam, Holland, in 2000; and the Right Livelihood Award, known as the “alternative Nobels” in 2005, sharing the honour with two Canadians and a man from Botswana.

She had another lovely surprise in October last year. Twelve years after she filed her suit, High Court Justice Tee Ah Sing awarded her RM200,000 in damages against Utusan Malaysia and one of its acting editors over an article published in 1995 titled Sikap Irene lengahkan siasatan (Irene’s attitude slows down investigations) that claimed she had failed to cooperate with the police investigations into the memorandum.

In his 104-page judgement which took two hours to read, Justice Tee, among others, ruled that the defendants had not given her an opportunity to comment before the article was published.

“I am for freedom of expression, but in that freedom of expression, you have to be responsible in your writing,” she said then.

Along the way, Fernandez decided to enter politics.

Asked whether her prosecution had been the push, the PKR supreme council member who was attending the three-day PKR congress that ends today, says: “That was part of it. So many of us saw how entrenched corruption was in the system.

“And the reformasi movement in 1998 was incredible because for the first time, masses of Malays joined the Opposition. That was the perfect time to mainstream the struggle.”

Fernandez stood for election in 1999 but lost. She had to sit out the 2004 and 2008 general elections because she was disqualified due to her conviction. Asked whether the delay in getting her appeal heard had cost her in terms of her political career, she laughs and says: “Of course. Otherwise I would be in Parliament now raising issues!”