Does Love Need a Reason?

Lady: Why do you like me..? Why do you love me?
Man: I can't tell the reason.. but I really like you..

Lady: You can't even tell me the reason...How can you say you like me? How can you say you love me?
Man: I really don't know the reason, but I can prove that I love you.

Lady: Proof? No! I want you to tell me the reason. My friend's boyfriend can tell her why he loves her but not you!
Man: Ok ok!!! Erm... because you're beautiful,
because your voice is sweet,
because you are caring,
because you are loving,
because you are thoughtful,
because of your smile,
because of your every movements..


Unfortunately, a few days later, the Lady met an accident and went in comma

The Guy then placed a letter by her side, and here is the content:


Dearest,

Because of your sweet voice that I love you...
Now can you talk? No! Therefore I cannot love you.

Because of your care and concern that I like you..
Now that you cannot show them, therefore I cannot love you.

Because of your smile, because of your every movements that I love you..
Now can you smile? Now can you move? No, therefore I cannot love you...

If love needs a reason, like now, there is no reason for me to love you anymore.

But does love need a reason?
I still love you... Because love doesn't need one.

"True love never dies for it is lust that fades away. Love bonds for a lifetime but lust just pushes away"

Taken from somewhere else, =D

Live Like We're Dying

Sometimes we fall down, can't get back up
We're hiding behind skin that's too tough
How come we don't say I love you enough?
'Til it's to late, it's not too late

Our hearts are hungry for a food that won't come
And we could make a feast from these crumbs
And we're all staring down the barrel of a gun
So if your life flashed before you, what would you wish you would've done?

Yeah, we gotta start lookin' at the hands of the time we've been given
If this is all we got, then we gotta start thinkin'
If every second counts on a clock that's tickin'
Gotta live like we're dying

We only got 86 400 seconds in a day to
Turn it all around or to throw it all away
We gotta tell 'em that we love 'em while we got the chance to say
Gotta live like we're dying

And if your plane fell out of the skies
Who would you call with your last goodbye?
Should be so careful who we left out of our lives
And when we long for absolution, there will be no one on the line

You never know a good thing 'til it's gone
You never see a crash 'til it's head on
Why do we think we're right when we're dead wrong?
You never know a good thing 'til it's gone

Sometimes we fall down, can't get back up
We're hiding behind skin that's too tough
How come we don't say I love you enough?

by Kris Allen

MHFA training

This is my newest certificate, first in 2010.
Really excited when I received that, don't know why.. but yeah..
With this certificate, I'm qualified to be an RA for next semester/year, but thinking not to apply it anymore, =(
This 12-hours training helps me in understanding several mental health problems and how to deal with those problems.
Not to mention that I have realized that I was in the state of severe depression in the past sadly, I don't know how to deal with it.
Other than that, this training really helpful for people, especially for youngsters and students so they can understand different type of mental health problems and know how to deal with it for first aid assistance.
Really encourage you to attend if you had the chance!

Many thanks to Stephen and Luke for their time, :)

Heal the World

Spoken by child:
'Think about the generations, and say we wanna make it a better
Place for our children and our children's children, so that they...
They, they... They know it's a better world for them.
And think if they can make it a better place...'

There's a place in your heart
And I know that it is love
And this place could be much
Brighter than tomorrow
And if you really try
You'll find there's no need to cry
In this place you'll feel
There's no hurt or sorrow

There are ways to get there
If you care enough for the living
Make a little space
Make a better place

Heal the world
Make it a better place
For you and for me
And the entire human race
There are people dying
If you care enough for the living
Make a better place
For you and for me

If you want to know why
There's a love that cannot lie
Love is strong
It only cares of joyful giving
If we try we shall see
In this bliss we cannot feel, fear or dread
We stop existing and start living

Then it feels that always
Love's enough for us growing
Make a better world
Make a better world

And the dream we were conceived in
Will reveal a joyful face
And the world we once believed in
Will shine again in grace
Then why do we keep strangling life
Wound this earth, crucify its soul
Though it's plain to see
This world is heavenly
Be God's glow

We could fly so high
Let our spirits never die
In my heart
I feel you are all my brothers
Create a world with no fear
Together we'll cry happy tears
See the nations
Turn their swords into plowshares

We could really get there
If you cared enough for the living
Make a little space
To make a better place

Heal the world
Make it a better place
(Oh, my friends)
For you and for me
And the entire human race
There are people dying
If you care enough for the living
Make a better place
For you and for me

You and for me
You and for me

Heal the world we live in
Save it for our children


by Michael Jackson (1958-2009)

Human and Donkey Equation

Equation 1
Human = eat + sleep + work + enjoy
Donkey = eat + sleep
Therefore: Human = Donkey + Work + enjoy
Therefore: Human-enjoy = Donkey + Work
In other words, A Human that doesn't know how to enjoy = Donkey that works.

Equation 2
Man = eat + sleep + earn money
Donkey = eat + sleep
Therefore: Man = Donkey + earn money
Therefore: Man-earn money = Donkey
In other words, Man who doesn't earn money = Donkey

Equation 3
Woman= eat + sleep + spend
Donkey = eat + sleep
Therefore: Woman = Donkey + spend
Woman - spend = Donkey
In other words, Woman who doesn't spend = Donkey

To Conclude: From Equation 2 and Equation 3
Man who doesn't earn money = Woman who doesn't spend
So Man earns money not to let woman become a donkey!
And a woman spends not to let the man become a donkey!

So, We have: Man + Woman = Donkey + earn money + Donkey + Spend money

Therefore from postulates 1 and 2, we can conclude :
Man + Woman = 2 Donkeys that live happily together


taken from somewhere else, =D

Now or never

Waktu itu nggak pernah berhenti. Kita terus maju dan maju, sebelum benar-benar menyadari, ternyata telah maju terlalu jauh.

Jika kamu pernah bertengkar, segera berbaikanlah!

Jika kamu merasa ingin mendengar suara teman kamu, jangan ragu-ragu untuk meneleponnya segera.

Jika kamu merasa kamu ingin bilang sama seseorang bahwa kamu sayang dia, jangan tunggu sampai terlambat.

Jika kamu terus pikir bahwa kamu lain hari baru akan memberitahu dia, hari ini tidak pernah akan datang.

Jika kamu selalu pikir bahwa besok akan datang, maka "besok" akan pergi begitu cepatnya hingga kamu baru sadar bahwa waktu telah meninggalkanmu.


taken from somewhere else, =D

Understanding a woman

We need MEANS I want

You want MEANS You need

It's your decision MEANS The correct decision should be obvious by now.

We need to talk MEANS I need to complain

Do what you want MEANS You'll pay for this later.

You're ... so manly MEANS You need a shave and you sweat a lot.

Sure... go ahead MEANS I don't want you to.

I'm not upset MEANS Of course I'm upset, you moron!

You're certainly attentive tonight. MEANS Is sex all you ever think about?

I'm not emotional! And I'm not overreacting! MEANS I'm on my period.

Be romantic, turn out the lights. MEANS I'm Embarrassed

This kitchen is so inconvenient MEANS I want a new house.

You have to learn to communicate. MEANS Just agree with me.

Yes MEANS No

No MEANS No

Maybe MEANS No

I heard a noise MEANS I noticed you were almost asleep.

Do you love me? MEANS I'm going to ask for something expensive.

How much do you love me? MEANS I did something you're not going to like.

I'll be ready in a minute. MEANS Be patient I'll be a while.

Am I a little fat? MEANS Tell me I'm beautiful.

I'm sorry. MEANS You'll be sorry.

Do you like this recipe? MEANS It's easy to fix, so get used to it.

Was that the baby? MEANS Why don't you wake up and deal with the baby.

I'm not yelling! MEANS Yes I am yelling because I think this is important.

All we're going to buy is a soap dish MEANS Major shopping trip. Did you bring your checkbook?


taken from somewhere else, =D

Men facts

Ok.,, i have to admit this one is taken from somewhere else, by someone else.
Somehow I found it interesting, some comments are lil' bit offended i think as a man, some are criticizing men but some are also true!
But hey, we are human, and we have weaknesses (my friend said, cacat excuse - in BM, lol), so I hope you enjoy it..


For all those men who say, Why buy a cow when you can get milk for free. Here's an update for you: Nowadays, 80% of women are against marriage, WHY? Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire pig just to get a little sausage.

Men are like Laxatives . They irritate the crap out of you.

Men are like. Bananas . The older they get, the less firm they are.

Men are like Weather . Nothing can be done to change them.

Men are like Blenders You need One, but you're not quite sure why

Men are like Chocolate Bars .. Sweet, smooth, & they usually head right for your hips.

Men are like Commercials . You can't believe a word they say.

Men are like Department Stores ... Their clothes are always 1/2 off!

Men are like .. Government Bonds .... They take soooooooo long to mature.

Men are like . Mascara . They usually run at the first sign of emotion.

Men are like Popcorn . They satisfy you, but only for a little while.

Men are like Snowstorms . You never know when they're coming, how many inches you'll get or how long it will last.

Men are like Lava Lamps . Fun to look at, but not very bright.

Men are like Parking Spots All the good ones are taken, the rest are handicapped.