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Bonds

Sometimes in life, there really are bonds form that can never be broken

Sometimes you really can find that one person who will stand by you no matter what

Maybe you will find it in the spouse and celebrate it with your dream wedding

But, there is also the chance that the one person you can count on for lifetime,

One person who knows you, sometimes better than you know yourself is the same person who has been standing beside you all along.

 

Bride Wars (2009)

Me and my friend

I was having a conversation with my friend and this thought came, so I decided to write it down.

I am not a very socialize person. It is not easy for me to make new friendship and it has never been easy either (and that makes my life difficult sometimes).

I am a type of person who will select my own friend based on my view (a Leo zodiac person always have the thought that they are the best, and that's explain a lot).

Someone can be my friend but it will be just you know my name, you know where I come from and vice versa, and that's it.

The reason why I don't easily make friend is because I don't like hi-bye friendship. I look for a never lasting friend.

For me, my friend are those who will give me hand when I ask for, those who will give me piece of advice when I need it, those who will cheer me when I am down, and those whom I share my joy and story. (psst, some of them know my secrets, so if you want to know about me ask from them =p).

That's why I never look down on my friend, I respect all of them and I don't want to lose any of them because they all are precious for me. Oh yeah, even when I have a so-called girlfriend, my friend will still be in my priority.

Yes we are [friends] and I do like to pass the day with you in serious and inconsequential chatter.  I wouldn't mind washing up beside you, dusting beside you, reading the back half of the paper while you read the front.  We are friends and I would miss you, do miss you and think of you very often.  I don't want to lose this happy space where I have found someone who is smart and easy and doesn't bother to check her diary when we arrange to meet.  ~Jeanette Winterson, Written on the Body, 1992

 Photo is taken by FG, published with permission.

Human act

Recently, I have a dissapointment on some people.

Many people can/do talk a lot of nice thing but only few of them realise what they say and even lesser, do what they say. Pathetic, isn't it? But that's how human act. We always do that (see the word "we" - means, I am inside the group also). Few excuses that I reckon are common: no time, it's not relevant anymore, forget about it, have to do something more important and still many more. The worst thing is, they don't realise it.

I remember there's an old phrase in Indonesian "tong kosong bunyinya nyaring", translated as people who like to speak out loud usually don't know anything. Then, in modern phrase, there's "mulutmu harimamu" translated as your mouth can be a danger for you (tiger as a symbol of danger).

I know this is hard but, I believe we can do, why? Because we are human who have brain and mind. We [should] think before we act/speak. We adapt to the situation. We change over time. So, why afraid? Why pessimistic? If we believe, YES WE CAN!

By writing this, it doesn't mean I against freedom of speech. I fully support freedom of people to talk, speak and deliver their aspiration. It's just, if you know you cannot fulfill it then, don't say it otherwise it will create dissapointment on other people.

"Let no corrupt word proceed out of your mouth, but what is good for necessary edification, that it may impart grace to the hearers" Ephesians 4:29.

 Picture is taken from: http://www.flickr.com/photos/wolfies_chain/1463719908/